A finer mesh is a knob you turn. Convergence is the evidence that you turned it far enough — and only one of the two actually tells you whether to trust the result.
A common shortcut engineers take under deadline pressure is picking a mesh size that "looks fine enough" and running with it — a dense-looking mesh with small elements, an elevated element count, a nice smooth-shaded stress plot. None of that is evidence the answer is correct. Mesh density describes how fine the mesh is; mesh convergence describes what happens to your result of interest as you make it finer. A single mesh, however dense, gives you exactly one number. Convergence requires at least two or three meshes at increasing density and a check on whether the answer is settling down toward a stable value — which is the only way to know whether the mesh you used was actually fine enough to trust.